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Dear You

I don’t know if you’ll take any of what I have to say into account, but I suppose that’s why I need to say it. I’ve seen you struggle with so many thing and I’ve tried to let you know I’m standing by your side through the lot of it. I know how difficult things […]

The Value of Arguments

The Value of Arguments

Realising that you don’t see eye to eye with someone you love is never easy. Conflict, in any capacity, is not fun. Having the first argument can feel like you’re risking becoming the kind of people who always fight. That’s usually not the way it is, but knowing that often doesn’t do anything to prevent […]

Dispelling the Myths Relationships That Change You

Dispelling the Myths: Relationships That Change You

Almost every interaction you’ll ever have with another human being will change you, even if you don’t really notice it. Exposure to other people, no matter how brief, expands your world view. So when you choose to spend more time with someone – whether that’s a one of round of drinks or a casual friendship […]

Dispelling the Myths Longevity in Relationships

Dispelling the Myths: Longevity in Relationships

There is something about a couple that has been together for seemingly forever that makes it seem like they were meant to be. It makes you start to believe in destiny. The way they act around each other, the way their lives intertwine so – apparently – seamlessly. Some couples can make relationships that last […]

How To Say Sorry

How To Say Sorry

No one is in the right every single time they get into a disagreement. It would be nice to think that we don’t go barging into discussions or arguments without being prepared to accept the truth if we don’t have all the facts. But people often do. Even if they enter into a debate with […]

The Importance of Diplomacy

The Importance of Diplomacy

Sometimes, it can be the things that bring the world closest together that make us realise how far apart it really is. The ease with which we can communicate with other cultures in modern days has made it clear just how different some societies can be. That’s not a bad thing. Connecting with people who […]

Things to Consider Before Committing to a Person

Things to Consider Before Committing to a Person

Things to Consider Before Committing to a Person Most of the time, when people make big and potentially life altering decisions, they take a while to contemplate the impact it will have on their future. They think about the changes it will cause, the sacrifices it will require them to make. People wait for a […]

How To Open Up

9 Ways To Open Up To Someone

Allowing yourself to be vulnerable around those you care about is a key part in defining the depth of your relationship with them. Being honest with them about your flaws, sharing the things that you are ashamed of, can be the gesture that seals the importance of the connection you share. For both of you. […]

The Joys Of Being Alone

The Joys Of Being Alone

As you sit and watch the clock strike twelve a feeling of loneliness swamps your space and invades your mind. We are taught to make friends from a young age, get into relationships in haste and surround ourselves with smiling colleagues and well-meaning family but rarely do we take a moment to absorb ourselves in […]

How to Debate Fairly

How to Debate Fairly

Human beings have the ability to communicate today with more people across the world than any generation before. We can talk to people on the other side of the globe with almost no wait time. We can share ideas with people who live cultures that have evolved completely differently from ours. There is so much […]

Imperfections As Inspiration

Imperfections As Inspiration

Everyone has at least one person who they look up to, who they turn to in times of need or trouble, who they think of when they’re stuck on a moral dilemma. Sometimes, it’s a beloved relative. Other times, it can be a celebrity, or a historical or mythological figure. We admire people for all kinds […]

The Decisions You Make Alone

The Decisions You Make Alone, And Why You Should Make Them Alone

Other people play an enormous role in every person’s life. The connections we have with those around us can be some of the most fulfilling things we will ever experience. In some cases, we can even consider our relationships as a defining factor in our existence. We turn to those who are there for us […]