Letting Go Of Closure

Letting Go Of Closure

It is a normal human drive to feel the need to seek answers when you feel like you’ve been left with nothing but a lot of loose ends. It feels like you’ve left things unfinished, like there’s more you need to do. In some cases, that feeling is very valid. There are some things that […]

Knowing Your Own Pace

Life Isn’t a Race….Stay At Your Own Pace

It’s easy to get used to instant gratification. We have all the information – and conspiracy theories – mankind has ever come up with at our fingertips at pretty much all times. Dinner can be delivered in thirty minutes or less. A car can arrive in five minutes to take us wherever we can’t be […]

It’s All In The Lifestyle

It’s All In The Lifestyle

Everyone has an image in their mind of the person they want to be. Some people are lucky enough that the person they see in the mirror looks a lot like the person they hold in their mind. Others, not so much. It’s not a bad thing if you don’t think you’re quite who you’re […]

How To Be Constructive With Time

How To Be Constructive With Time

Feeling productive is one of the most satisfying and rewarding feelings a person can experience. Feeling like you’ve done something valuable with your time, like you’ve achieved something. Like you’ve spent your time wisely. But that can feeling can be a rare one. It’s one you really have to work for. And people are not […]

How To Access Your Prejudices

How To Access Your Prejudices

The existence of prejudice in the world has been the cause of a lot of damage. People clinging to their prejudices, even when they cause other people great amounts of suffering, is behind a lot of the conflict in many societies. There is nothing more dangerous than believing that you do not have any of […]

4 Things You Definitely Need More of In Your Life

4 Things You Definitely Need More of In Your Life

All in moderation. It’s a good motto to have to guide you through life. It helps to keep you balanced, it helps to ward off things like addiction or obsession. It allows you to enjoy yourself without going overboard. It keeps your focused without grinding you too hard. It helps you maintain healthy levels of […]

The Problem With Productivity

The Problem With Productivity

The need to feel productive is a normal part of the human condition. You might not experience it the way that other people do, but you’ll feel it in one way or another. Human beings want to make the world a better place. That might mean they want to improve their own lives, or those […]

5 Steps To Help Fix Your Life

5 Steps To Help Fix Your Life

Everyone has those bad days when they feel disillusioned with … everything. They decide that, actually, they don’t enjoy their job much and the prospects it offers for the future aren’t that attractive either. They start to notice that the area they live in isn’t all that attractive, they don’t feel included in the community. They realise […]

Why It’s So Hard To Let Go

Why It’s So Hard To Let Go

If there is one thing that is practically guaranteed in a lifetime, it is difficult decisions. There are some aspects of human life that just aren’t going to be easy, no matter who you are or how lucky. At times, a choice you face can feel like none of the options ahead of you look […]

Choosing The World You Live In

Choosing The World You Live In

You have a choice about how you experience the world. You have control over your perception of things as they are. You get to decide what you are exposed to and what you blind yourself to. In an age when news is broadcast through so many different media, from so many different perspectives, it is […]

How To Open Up

9 Ways To Open Up To Someone

Allowing yourself to be vulnerable around those you care about is a key part in defining the depth of your relationship with them. Being honest with them about your flaws, sharing the things that you are ashamed of, can be the gesture that seals the importance of the connection you share. For both of you. […]

What I Learned From Going Without A Phone For Two Weeks

What I Learned From Being Without A Phone For Two Weeks

One Friday not long ago I tripped on an uneven stretch of pavement. While I had no trouble keeping my balance, my phone flew out of my hand and the screen shattered on the pavement. Between trying to figure out if I should pay to upgrade my existing contract early or buy a temporary phone […]