Quit Waiting & Start Living
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Quit Waiting & Start Living…
Sometimes life is hard. There are daily, monthly, and yearly struggles we all go through. We may have times in our lives when we consistently feel that things just aren’t going our way and because of that, we may become disappointed. We may feel that many of the things in our lives we’ve dreamed of haven’t happened yet, so why should we feel anything but disappointed? We’ve been waiting for big things to happen in our lives and have yet to see any results.
So, what’s the problem you see here? Waiting. Many of us just seem to spend a lot of our time waiting around for something better to happen. What are we waiting for? Maybe we aren’t sure. Maybe we are waiting to find the love of our lives; maybe we are waiting for a better job to come along. Maybe we are waiting for the perfect moment to go travel and see the world. Maybe we’re just waiting because that’s all we think we can do.
THE PROBLEM WITH WAITING…
If you are waiting that usually means you are telling the universe that you can’t possibly control your life. You have probably concluded in your mind that it doesn’t matter what you try to do, life will always have other plans for you. Someone or something else has more control over your future and you just need to sit back and hope things work out the way you want them to. And so begins your quest sitting around, doing nothing, simply waiting. AND GUESS WHAT? With that mentality, you surely will be waiting forever.
Because, the truth is, life doesn’t sit around waiting for you, so why should you do the same? If you ever want to change anything in your life, you must get up and take action now! Here are some quick tips to get your life on track and help you feel better!
Laughing always makes everything feel better. If you are down, finding something silly or hilarious to laugh about can instantly put you in good spirits (and lucky for you, there are about thousands of videos for free on this little site called YouTube…heard of it?) Or, if you want live action, try going to a comedy show. Another option? Look around you and laugh at how absurd, crazy and weird this life is.
BECOME A GOOD FRIEND
Do you want friends? Become a friend yourself. Go to meet ups, start talking to people. Listen to what the people around you really have to say instead of waiting for your chance to talk. Find out what’s interesting about them. Be kind. Be sincere.
LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF
If you want love, become a loving person. Love yourself first. If you haven’t had love in your life for a long time, find out what’s holding you back. Look deep inside yourself and reflect on what’s happened in your life to get you to where you are and how you can change it to get you to where you want to be.
Start loving yourself again, because the more you love yourself the more you will attract and be surrounded with people who love you, and when it really comes down to it, isn’t that what we are all “waiting” for? Someone or something to love. At the end of the day we all just want to feel good and what makes a person feel better than knowing they are loved? So, please, stop waiting to be an awesome person to do awesome things and realise you are already an amazing, beautiful loving person who deserves all of those things you’ve been waiting and wishing and hoping for. Realize they are inside you, waiting to burst out with radiant fire! You are love. Remember it.
Author Bio – Jennifer Hudak is a writer and creator of the website ‘This Is For The Dreamers’, an inspirational blog dedicated to helping people improve their lives and ultimately follow their dreams.